He is so distant with me. We both seem to be on guard. How do I know that these things (not cooking for him, not doing his laundry) are going to work better than what I've been doing? It's hard to be distant and not have it seem strained. Am I doing it right? I say so little to him.
He tells me I can have everything (in a divorce). He says he just wants to live in a one bedroom apt by himself and be depressed. Doesn't he sound like he has guilt? NO ONE in his family has gotten a divorce. Not his parents, no Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents, not even any of his cousins. His parents are very religious and a divorce would kill them. They would be so disappointed in him.
