Well Matt I for sure thought about it! But instead he will now go hungry or cook and since it 10pm my time and he has yet to come home I will go with he will go hungry! Did you see my goals?
It's a start. I wouldn't push him to make dinner - but you could make dinner for just you and the kids and let him do his own thing if he's out or sleeping or whatever.
How about goals for PMA - no complaining? More laughing? Smiling? How about a goal to improve your energy level - eating better? More sleep? Exercise?
And yes, of course, no pursuing. I'm not sure you should go sit with him in the garage. Let him come find YOU. Maybe get a new book or something to do instead?