Well, in this case she is the owner of the three (including me) person business where I work. There's no HR to report her to -- suck it up or jump. No one in this position has lasted longer than 6-9 months -- 2/3 of whom she fired. She's really disrespectful too. One very young woman landed in the position she wanted here at a much larger, more prestigious firm... My boss announces proudly "I fired her a$$." I do not intend to let her talk like that about me. I'm getting my ducks in a row. I do know more of what I'm worth now. It's just a matter of deciding how to go about things.
In other news, STBX is taking the kids tomorrow for a week with his family. Glory be, I get a break! I will miss them. And they will miss me. I was a little surprised they aren't more excited to spend a week with him. They don't talk so much anymore about missing him, which makes me sad. Then again, he emailed today asking for me to "work with him" so he can go on a long international trip. I guess my kids are starting to understand how highly he prioritized work trips.
Lastly, I can clearly see from the credit card bills that he's dating. I wonder if it's one woman or a series, and if it's one, what she thinks of him going away for a week without her. I wonder if my kids know and are afraid to say anything. (S9 has become protective of me). This is all idle. I submitted my complaint this week and hopefully it's been served on his attorney while he was out of town. I'm nearing the finish line. I expect to sleep a LOT this weekend.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15