Sent a text this morning just saying have a great day! (I know bad) BUT I did not want him coming home to mad because we were supposed to go racing tonight with D8. More of a temp check deal I guess. He simply said you to! Which is a response more than I have gotten in a week now! He came home said Hey I am going fishing tomorrow I just looked at him. (I have told him 100 x's you can not tell me what to do you need to ask idc if we are not together it always involves me watching kids.) He then said sorry "can I go fishing tomorrow would that be ok?" I said yes I think I am going to take D8 to do something tomorrow evening anyways. (she is the only one here on Fridays) Good part is at least he asked because I had him asking then when we fought he went back to telling me! He fell asleep on couch as soon as he got home from work. I sat around for a while and then made dinner. woke him up when I brought plate out to him as D8 wanted to eat in our room so she could watch tv. he said set it on the coffee table please and thanks for making dinner. He fell back asleep so I let him sleep. It is no longer my job to babysit him make sure he gets up gets things done. If he wants to sleep all night go ahead. I ate then took laptop back to our room sat with D8. He comes back around 9 tonight and asked why I let him sleep for 5 hours. I just said I tried to wake you. He then back a few minutes later and said he was running across town asked if it was ok with me if he did (asking again twice in one day world may end) I said it was fine again. He said "I did not want to just leave because I know you would bit** about it" yep usually true but its time I do not worry about what he is doing. I told him I would not eat the dinner I set out for him the dog licked it. He would need to find something else! So positive for today: He had a good attitude, I had a good attitude, I just let him sleep instead of "taking care of him" like usual, he asked twice to do things not just told me, I have not asked him to spend time with me in 2 days. Tomorrow there is NO texting and depending when gma gets home with D8 i will try to be gone before he gets home!
