Journaling:
Another low key day at work. Just really having fun with all my coworkers. STBX called at the end of her shift but I was busy and didn't answer. After lunch, she sent a cute video TM of S1. I jokingly replied to the TM.

When I got to band practice, I spoke with the kids a bit. As I was about to end the call, I asked her if she wanted to grab lunch tomorrow (in response to her request earlier in the week to spend time together). She said yes and seemed excited about it.

During practice, I saw that I missed a few calls and TMs from STBX.

"Wanted to ask you when you would like to meet tomorrow. I told my friend that we could meet her at the beach so I want to coordinate my plans. Also...I've eaten at X Restaurant almost every morning the last three days. Is there anywhere else you'd like to go? Otherwise we can have dinner. Whatever works for you. :)"

My reply:
"I really am super flexible for lunch and could do an early dinner too."

So it sounds like we will either end up doing lunch or an early dinner. Either way I will keep it fun and casual. And I took Starsky's advice and picked up a new pair of shoes.

Other than that, had a blast at band practice and am currently taking an online parenting class my state requires for divorcing parents. Fun!


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15