Bright - regarding taking a step toward cutting those last connections to H...there is one big difference between yours and my sitches...I was in your position for a year and a half, until H finally filed for D. HE took that final step and filed, and that meant I had no choice but to cooperate and go along with it. I was forced to sell, move, cut the last connections. I really don't know how long I would have waited before I took that step, maybe a few more months maybe? Not sure. Your H is still on the fence it seems. Mine was for 18 months. I started to push him a few times, wanting SOMETHING to happen, regardless of which side of that fence he fell on. I couldn't take the lack of movement anymore. I don't regret anything i did or said during that time.
If you are not ready to make something happen, then wait until you are. And it's likely you will be at some point. You are getting restless, and fed up. I know that feeling. So frustrating. It's hard to be the one to cut those connections. But one day, that might be the right thing for you.
Thinking of you... LiveNow
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
