ralphy ... cut yourself some slack here ... you are pretty fresh into this and the DB callouses take time to form up
I will 2x4 you about Taco Bell though .. bleh..lol
CoDepenency is a tough one, I never thought I was co-dependant till I have the world cave in on me. At first there was denial .. a sense of .. wooohoo I can do what I want, then ... yeah I noticed when she seemed happy I was miserable, but when she was miserable I felt happy, all for all the wrong reasons.
This is where the detach and GAL go hand in hand and over time you get your swag back. If you need to sit in your car and ball your eyes out .. go do it .. it helps, especially in a safe spot where you do not have to worry about people wondering WTF is it about that Dorito Crunch Wrap that has you a mess.
