Been reading a lot about emotional abuse, hurts so much to know the pain I caused my w. She said she thought I was trying to charm her these last 3 months, and she was right as far as me trying to show her I changed, but a lot of what I wanted to do was just be kind, compassionate toward her.
My w sent an email to me about someone trying to adopt out there cat. She said I know you have been wanting a cat for awhile, we never had one because my w is allergic to them. It hurts to read stuff like that, which says I am not coming back. Maybe one of the many tests I will face. At least the cat was 16 yrs old, so wouldn't live much longer, not like w would be coming back any time to soon anyway.
The other day when we talked, my w told me how she was standing up for herself more, she didn't do that in our m nearly enough. It's good that we are both doing the things we needed to.
Last edited by help67; 07/16/1510:33 PM.
Me:47 W:47 D:12 T:27yrs. M:17yrs. S:10/14 Wife wants legal sep., which can be divorce after 1 yr. om b 7/15 but probably a lot longer
