1) you want to tell her to come pack, because you want company or help packing your stuff. best thing to do will be to do it myself? I mean at the end of the day Ill do w/3 it takes help me go get her back. even its means packing a whole house by myself. well it our stuff.. 2) you think her life is simple and yours is hard. You think she should cater to you to balance this out. I just feel she got the easy way out. I dont wan her to cater to me but I do want her to see the reality of things, thats its not just saying I quit and living the life with 0 responsibilities. would it help me or benefit me in anything? don't think so maybe Im just hating..! 3) you think she is being lazy as a mother. Yes I do.. but don't want her to know that I think that about her even though I know she feels that way about herself.. 4) you want to have some alone time so you can convince her to get back together with you. yeah It looks bad.!!!
what would u do different?
Did I miss anything? I'm not saying I agree with any of those thoughts above. But that's what I can see her taking from all of the things you said above.
