1) you want to tell her to come pack, because you want company or help packing your stuff.
2) you think her life is simple and yours is hard. You think she should cater to you to balance this out.
3) you think she is being lazy as a mother.
4) you want to have some alone time so you can convince her to get back together with you.
Did I miss anything? I'm not saying I agree with any of those thoughts above. But that's what I can see her taking from all of the things you said above.
