10 Months Later... XW Wants To Talk About Us?

[HPoirot]

Just updating... I looked at my phone for another reason and saw she replied so just went ahead and read it. Not terrible and not unexpected...

Thanks HP for getting back to me.

What has not changed is the fact that I still feel that - regardless of me seeing someone or not - we should have talked more.

But I honestly I do understand your point of view and respect it.

Even if we don't talk about us, we need to talk about S12 at least. Are you willing to do that? To talk about the school year, what he will need, visitation and custody, and what your plans are for moving to Florida?

Thanks,

XW


That last part she knows we do and have done over email. And still with this "no matter what I was doing, you should have talked to me/not left/not made me homeless and things would have been better."

So lesson again... it's no use fussing over these conversations. It's really no use parsing what the WAS says. It's actions and commitment initiated by them that you have to look for. You can only state your needs and boundaries, don't expect any outcome, and keep moving forward.

So, no reply, nothing more to say, and moving on.