Sounds like a good reply HP. As you say, best to keep moving on and see how things unfold. For sure, I think you are absolutely right not to become 'OM' if your W is still involved in another R ...

Can I ask? I recall you were having contact with another woman around the time you stopped posting. I wondered whether that was part of the reason you left the forum for a while? Please feel free not to answer if it is too intrusive..

Also, what would it mean for your W if you and S do move away. Would she be a good distance from you then?

Really glad to see you back on the forum and look forward to seeing how things go for you xx

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Me 48 H 46
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus