I have truly gotten over the affair. But I'd did want to discuss it to make sure it didn't happen again....but now I realize it's off limits...so I have been focusing (when we were talking) on reconnection rather then our marriage issues, reconciliation, marriage counseling, our future, etc...
I have been trying to have our conversations based on what we used to enjoy talking about. Keeping it fun and light 95% of the time...but I think the 5% really backfired on me.
I'm going to have to read more ww threads, any guidance?
