HP, I am glad this has come up. I think you are handling it correctly. Not just jumping in and asking for opinions. I have thought about this quite a few times. I did tell myself that if it did ever come up, my response would be, "I am going to have to really think this over and get back to you". My reasons for that response would be, am I willing to take a chance again? Am I willing to take a chance with my kids going through this again? Will I ever be able to trust her again? Is she really sincere or is the because she is lonely and things aren't working out like she hoped? My feelings are, if she is sincere, she would do whatever it takes to try and work things out. Even if that means emailing you several times or calling several times.
One thought I had, didn't you say you were getting ready to move away? This would explain a few things about the email and maybe some reality hitting her.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
