On the positive side - her texts are nicer and she uses exclamation points. At least that is better than a dead affect - no emotion, no names, no salutations or endings. A small goal will be to see if we can actually address each other by our names in communications.
Thanks for the suggested wording.
Heavy
Heavy ... been following along and have not felt much of an urge to post to you as I felt you are doing well and taking things as they as, as they come.... glad your Vaca went well.
This part ... Its not really Goal type material for you, sure you could call her by name but setting a goal that relies on a WAS and their actions is not really something one can achieve (Like me setting a Goal my W wears white shorts or kisses me more) ... you have posted a few times on this very topic and I know it bugs you ... again ... out of your control how she acts and addresses you.
Now if you set a goal to always use her name, sure ... possibly your WAS will follow suit ... but watch having expectations about that.
