Thanks Cadet - that makes sense. I'm sure it will implode sooner or later. I don't know if it ever got to PA but it was serious enough where he talked about divorce/leaving and was making *plans* with her. We are both still in the same home now & I have to be around him all the time. Plus our 2 little girls... they know things are a bit weird but nothing serious.... He keeps coming to me (prob because I'm detaching)... so that's where I get all befuddled. I see that we can't really move on until she's out of the picture. And I don't want to just be "second best". UGH.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
