Ok. There is no way I'm replying to all that on my phone. I'll take my laptop home tonight and try to give some feedback.
In the meantime, see if you can group them some to get to the ROOT of the issue. For example, he doesn't care about the clothes on the floor. whar night he think is the reason? See if you can get down to 5-7 KEY issues - the things you listed above may all stem from those.
