Bringing this over from the previous thread:

Originally Posted By: PigPen
Originally Posted By: Wonka
PP,

Hey have you given any thought to my suggestion of writing a letter to W?



Hi Wonka,

I'd like to write my W a letter. I've needed this week to work on my business relationship and get that sorted out. And then get some rest. All of this has me sleeping about 4 hours a night unfortunately.

I can start on the letter on Sunday of this week. Any thoughts to share on it?

Sketch it out first? I'll type it out first until I can hand write it.

Thanks again.

PP


You would want to start with 2 to 3 general main points and then flesh it out with the support from the counselor who connected you with the couple. I'd want to work with them on feedback and input on the letter.

I would start off the letter to W with an opening along those lines (of course, you can change to suit your style):

W,

I had hoped that we both would attend the MC session because I wanted to share with you some reflections I've had since we separated. Since we did not meet in person, I thought I would write those thoughts out in a letter to you.

You need to know that it is my preference to do this in person with you for I feel you deserved the courtesy and respect to hear it directly from my mouth. I no longer want to run or hide from you. After a lot of introspection and reflection, I want to reach out to you and share what I've learned in my own personal journey.


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