I forgave her for the affair, but from time to time I ask questions and she does not want to talk about it. I have put that in Gods hands, because dwelling on it was not helping me or our conversations
Dwelling on the A isn't healthy for you, her or the R, but neither is sweeping it under the rug.
Originally Posted By: Scott72
I also asked where she was going all dressed up in a mini skirt two weeks ago and she got angry saying I am making her feel guilty for something she should not feel guilty over.......She then said she needed a break and we have not talked in two weeks
Have you read up on the WW threads? Her affair being over doesn't mean shes not still wayward at heart. Placing that blame back on you could be a sign of that.
Focus on you right now, whatever shes going to do you cant control.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
