I forgave her for the affair, but from time to time I ask questions and she does not want to talk about it. I have put that in Gods hands, because dwelling on it was not helping me or our conversations
You forgave her...or you SAID you forgave her. Be honest. It doesn't sound like you've actually moved past it.
Originally Posted By: Scott72
95% of our conversation is based on reconnection and daily events....5% was on reconciliation which I learned was to much, since she felt pressured even though I just brought it up casually and dropped it if she felt uncomfortable
What's the difference between reconnection and reconciliation?
Originally Posted By: Scott72
Everything is hypersensitive, to the point where she stopped talking to me
You mention actions......is there a list on this board to help me with ideas
I have some ideas from my wife, but with no communication and her being sensitive on the subject I don't want to ask her at this time
No. You can't ask your wife! But think about what she has complained about over the years. Think about what you want to change in yourself. Then change them. For YOU. be the man you want to be, the man only a fool would leave. Only then will you have a chance of her changing her mind.
