I forgave her for the affair, but from time to time I ask questions and she does not want to talk about it. I have put that in Gods hands, because dwelling on it was not helping me or our conversations

95% of our conversation is based on reconnection and daily events....5% was on reconciliation which I learned was to much, since she felt pressured even though I just brought it up casually and dropped it if she felt uncomfortable


Everything is hypersensitive, to the point where she stopped talking to me

You mention actions......is there a list on this board to help me with ideas

I have some ideas from my wife, but with no communication and her being sensitive on the subject I don't want to ask her at this time