Why? To move forward. I think we're both pretty much there.
Not control - I've told him I don't know where all this is going & I know I'm not in the driver's seat here. But none of us wants to be in the Limbo any longer.

Probably not "react" but I doubt he'll really communicate much after that....

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?