Hi Jelly - Thanks

Funny - at my IC last night, she used the words mentally unstuck to help me describe my inching forward. (I though of your words). thanks

I feel completely inadequate around here to give advice - I have never been one to give advice to others - (my take on that is other's may view me as thinking I am some kind of expert - when in fact, I receive advice, I evaluate it, I question it, I use it or not - I don't judge the person giving it to me - I don't think they are trying to force me to do something or show off their wisdom. I don't seem to allow myself to play by the same rules as I accept from others) We've talked about this before though.

Love a kind word and cheeky smile.

Acknowledging what my core boundaries are up there (as far as relationships go) has helped me a little, but I really don't know what to do with them. Maybe this will help me later in life though.

and I really don't know what to do with the resentment right now either. I am mentally stuck with this right now.

I hope you are doing well.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015