Well, he doesn't yell. He seems like he wants to actually talk about it openly. And I even tried to articulate that it isn't my job to make him happy just like it isn't his job to make me happy. But he's convinced that's a big part of being "one" in a marriage. I know I can't change his mind. It seems like all I can do is validate.... but it does seem like he's close to talking about it.
Well just remember whatever he says to treat with axiom #1.
Believe NONE of what he says and half of what he does.
IMHO you need to buy some duct tape in a designer color, also stop in at the STFU department and get some of that too.