So how can I answer that question? He uses it regularly (remember - he's been a counselor before & knows a lot of techniques/psych games).
I think you broaden it out. What you want is a healthy marriage, right? That's your ultimate goal, I think. So you say you want that. You want to rebuild trust.
I don't think you can dictate the step by step path through it - EAPECIALLY not how you want him to FEEL.
