He asked me what I want. I told him that, again, I wanted a godly marriage and family. He said I didn't seem to care. I tried to say I understand that or that is valid and if I didn't care I wouldn't be there through all of this for months now. He asked again what I wanted from him. So I said the only right thing is that I want the truth - that he needs to confess. And the only right response is forgiveness. So he asked what he was confessing to - which made me really angry. I called him on his game (which he then accused me of doing) and said confession doesn't work that way, remember? So, he's not really ready to fully talk about all this yet. But he did "unfriend" his OW on Facebook - their favorite way to communicate. That was huge.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
