You can water them, just not in the way you think directly. Keep being that lighthouse and do what you have been doing for the most part and it works.
Not sure how you will approach that subject on the spending, we had the same issues but it was both of us. My covert contracts of being a nice guy caused me to want to go out and spend needlessly and she did at times also. Whatever you do do, make sure its focused on you also and not just her, she will instantly get defensive if you start out with her.
Yep, focus on you and let her fix herself
Also, the amount of engineers on this site is concerning at times.
Last edited by Fogg; 07/16/1512:15 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
