Starsky's reply was - and still is - quite brilliant, IMO.
But considering the email exchange (ugh), I might change it up a bit. Here's a suggestion, but I'd be interested to know what others think:
W, let me be clear: I agree with what you wrote in many ways. Still, I've made clear my conditions for being able to entertain the idea of eventually reconciling our marriage and family. Those conditions stand. Once you've met them, I'm all ears.
Thoughts?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014