New marriage over pt3--filed for divorce

[PigPen]

I'm with Matt on this one AJ. Especially in the beginning it's good to have a bit of hope. It drives you. It's the difference between people on this board who are working their tales off to be better spouses given the tinniest bit of chance of reconciliation, and just about everyone else you meet who is getting divorced and is drunk, screwing everything in site, and completely destroying themselves as a coping mechanism.

Hope is good. Hope makes you want to strive to better yourself. Even if it's just a little bit. Hope is also free, so why the heck not.