Matt I've detached fully , don't even check her fb(can't anyway she took me off ) I'm working on me w/o hope of her coming back, Bc she's shown nothing that as a counselor said would even hint that she's keeping a door open , all "her doors" according to them are shut and locked .
Without even getting into the bolded ^^^, I'm still trying to understand my question above. My W has shown exactly the same things as yours. While we have kids together, so we have to have some level of contact, it's been otherwise exactly the same. I'm trying to understand what your MC team thinks will be different by giving up hope of R. As I said, the only thing that I can imagine being different if I were to TRULY give up hope of R would be for me to start dating again. I don't see how doing all of the other things I listed is impacted negatively at all by keeping hope for R alive.
