Originally Posted By: Eirinn
So, I'm starting full time work in the fall, but mostly it starts in August. Filling out all the stupid paperwork and one of the sheets is for direct deposit. I ask my H tonight whether I should have it put in our joint account or my personal. He says my personal.

Obviously I am not detached enough as this hit me hard in the stomach. I figured he'd say joint and I would talk about how much would be reasonable to transfer to my personal each pay period. I had hoped that maybe he wasn't leaving in September, but now I'm back to feeling like maybe he is.


This is too bad. Though I kinda think it would have been best to just have it deposited into the joint acct and not bring it up. It's always easy to change later.

Ah well. Keep on going, E.


At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15