Thank you so much for stopping by on my sitch. I hope I'm giving him the space he needs. I feel sometimes that because we're still in the same house that I forget to do it. It is so easy to forget because he acts as if, and I'm trying to as well. Tonight I went to get ice cream and he offered to get it for me. I told him that he didn't need to, I could do it. I feel like I have to stop having him do small things for me as he complained in October that he always thinks of me first and not himself.
I'm glad you think I'm doing it right. My IC has been gone for four weeks on vacation and boy do I miss her. She helps me see things more clearly that I'm obsessing about. She also gave me the book, Codependent No More as well.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
