Today I told her that I was going to take my D2 to the zoo on sunday. I felt bad not telling her to come with us but, I stayed strong,
Why did you tell her what you were doing? It makes it seem like you're competing. "Look at this fun thing you're missing." Why not just do it and let D2 tell her what you did? ok didnt see it that way, well I could always change plans and do something else maybe something that my d2 hasn't done yet..
Originally Posted By: desp13
also this week Im supposed to start packing and I was going to do it by myself, but its also her responsibility so I told her that she needed to come and help me pack.!
Was that the right call?
Start packing for what? Not sure it's s great idea to be telling a WAW what they "need" to do.
well when she MO I had to tell the landlord that we weren't renewing the lease so it expires in two weeks so I need to start packing but there is still a lot of of her stuff in the house mainly stuff that she doesn't need and use but It doesn't feel right for me to pack her stuff and let her get away with no responsibility. plus we have to move a lot of stuff to a storage unit until I find a place. We have a lot of portraits and pictures that idk what to do with them and idk If I should let her decide what to do with all that. should I just do this by myself?
