Thanks PigPen and Shotgun.

I know that I contributed to my M falling apart. I understand that the A is not my fault and was her choice.

All I can do is change who I am and be the best me I can going forward.

My approach has been GAL,LRT and PMA. I have been trying hard not to pursue.
I have been pleasant when I see her but also giving her space. She is still seeing OM which makes it so hard, but our few interactions have been much more positive than they had been, her behavior is another story. She dosen't text me everyday anymore, she rarely calls but like I said....giving her space.

Its really hard as you all know, when you talk to someone everyday for 15 years not to have some withdrawal.....but I have not given in, i only respond sometimes, and never initiate. Always PMA when there is contact.


T14 M5
SD15,D8,S6,D3
"Not Happy" 12/11/14
EA discovered 2/11/15
MC started 2/17/15
MC "put on hold" 4/3/15
W IC started 4/5/15
PA admitted 5/7/15
WW moves out 5/8/15
WW gets her own place 7/15/15