I have found myself in the same situation as many

[ATPeace]

I am guessing sence of humour and to have fun have to be fairly high up on the list
Please can you guide me you say I need to set Specific goals

Ok so how about this
Goal I want to spend more time with my children
Action change my working schedulal and make sure that I do not book lessons in before 9:15am so I can do breakfast and see the kids to school

Goal to do more housework
Action discuss today with paula the things she hates to do I agree that I will do the ironing and load and unload the dishwasher I also agree that I will put on a load of washing and transfer it to the dryer she said she is happy to put it into kids rooms or away

Goal to become more healthy
Action I am about 3 to 4 stone overweight always have been , I am eating more healthy meals and trying to do more exercise

Goal to coexist in the same house for as long as we can bringing happiness to our children
Action keep calm in the house not argue in front of children

Does this sound. better

I know I will make mistakes along this journey but will learn with each mistake it is not about failure it is more about never giving up and being open to change