I agree ... and that follow up 4 hours later looks like a Pursuit tactic we all would be water-boarded for.
I might crack the door open but with a very stern voice ... at least to get it to the discussion table, its not like in one email you will 'be happily ever after' ... I would at the least be open to talking, restating your terms and conditions and if she can not live with that ... its all on her.
