Kids and I met XH at a restaurant so XH could explain to the kids the whole D arrangements.
As we got there XH was waiting, smiling and very polite. I just said Hi, not in a mood for smiles.
XH gave a speech that he understands how everyone is very sad, and suffering for what happen. That he will be always present in the kids life, blah, blah, blah. Just like the three weeks that the kids did not hear from him. And he said that he will always be in contact with "mum" for whatever comes up.
I mention that we have arranged that the kids will spend some time with him on two weekends every month and hang out with him two nights during the week. He then explained that right now he does not have a place and that he is working on that. Then he had tears.
No one cried, just H feeling all miserable. I also mention that he made a point to pay part of the kids cell phones only if they will answer his texts and his messages. XH did not like much my comment, but wth?, he did this and now wants to hide it under the rug.
I did not want to have any dinner and asked if he was done with his explanations. He said he was done and asked if I was leaving. I said I had other things to do and he could drop off the kids at the house. He then said that he did not have cash or cards on him. Really?
XH said that he could not pay the bill if I left, then I said I would pay what they ordered and leave, he said he did not know if they would order desserts. Really?
So I sat there drinking water and feeling really uncomfortable. XH kept looking at me and trying to talk to me.
He asked my opinion about renting a mail box for his mail for awhile... I just looked at him and said that it was not my business, that he can do whatever he wants.
I did my best do not explode on his face, but it is asking too much to be all friendly when he just divorced me. Time will go by and things will get easier, but right now he is the last one in my list.
And besides, I do not get it. Why he is always feeling OK to be beside me? Ahg, I am kind of getting disgusted about this.
I am just venting, XH is more a pain then any other thing now.
