How do you know it's over? Has she filled for divorce? From my point of view (as a woman), if it was really over I'd fill for D, but I'm only guessing that she wants to make sure that THIS time your changes are for really and here to say forever!
You said that three years ago you changed but it didn't last. Now with this website, and more knowledge you can make these changes last. I guess it won't be an overnight thing.
