a young man with hope II

[lnlyshp]

Hello desp13. I feel for your situation. You mention sometimes using the excuse of asking about your daughter. One thing that I cannot impress upon you enough is that it is now all about your daughter. I know you want to be back with your X, I know I definitely wish I was back with mine, but the more important thing to me is that my son is doing well. Don't use her as an excuse - use her as a connection. Bond with your x based on the love that I'm sure you both share for your daughter.

As for mistakes to avoid - I would say play it cool. Don't let your emotions get the best of you. I genuinely think I would be back together with my X if I hadn't been so angry towards her during this time. Stay calm when you see her. Appear happy. It hurts to fake but trust me, you're better off.

Best of luck.