I got it....finally!

It's clarity.

From the beginning of the sitch, W's mantra was that she was seeking clarity....clarity about our M, clarity about the direction of her life in general.

What better way to achieve clarity than to actually experience life post-marriage. Not to actually D (yet), but to see what that life really looks like....

That's the clarity I want. Am I really wanting to fight to save the marriage, or am I just afraid of change?


Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood