Hi Bobby , it varies by state but I think if the 30 days pass they will serve you ? Me I have 30 days too and will sign it, if I don't she'll hate me even more . In my state of California it takes about 6 months to finalize so I'll have that time .
Matt I've detached fully , don't even check her fb(can't anyway she took me off ) I'm working on me w/o hope of her coming back, Bc she's shown nothing that as a counselor said would even hint that she's keeping a door open , all "her doors" according to them are shut and locked .
Me:35 W:30 7 years together 11 months married No children W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015 W filed for D: July 2015