I have found myself in the same situation as many

[ATPeace]

I know everything that you have said is exactly how she is feeling

I will change and I am changing I am changing for me and for my children if my wife can accept that the changes too are genuine then perhaps there is hope but it may be too late I hope that it's not but I do fear that its all over

I guess all I can do is make the changes and see what fate decides

Not a great situation