What should I do when he becomes jealous of attention to children? How do I respond given where he is mentally?
I do think I focused more attention on the kids once they were a bit older and my resentment was at all time high. So I know I need to re-balance the scales on my end, too. But how, with a pre-teen?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced