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Re: Hello from south of la la land job #2588345 07/15/15 08:17 PM
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OP HaWho Member H Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 1,597 Likes: 2	Lionhrt and Job-all great info. Thanks! Re-reading it all. Job-what do you mean that their term of "friend" is not what we mean? Please elaborate. Also, looking back on it, I think there have been many, many instances where my H was jealous of attention I gave to my kids. Oftentimes, rather than join forces and co-parent (which would have stengthened our marital bond) H seemed to want to be a third kid. On my end I appeased but resentfully so. Made a BIG mistake there. As resentment kept building on my end. Often I felt more like his mother or live in nanny vs. an equal. Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced

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Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/29/15 10:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/29/15 11:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Wonka	06/30/15 05:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 06:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/30/15 06:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 07:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 09:37 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 10:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Sotto	07/01/15 12:13 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/01/15 04:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Georgiabelle	07/01/15 07:06 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/01/15 08:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 02:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 07:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 12:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 01:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 03:51 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/10/15 04:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 05:19 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 05:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 05:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 06:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 06:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 10:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 11:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:24 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/11/15 07:51 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 09:36 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/11/15 12:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 11:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 06:53 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 07:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/13/15 08:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 09:16 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Rouky	07/14/15 06:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 04:45 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 05:52 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:38 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 07:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 07:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:17 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 08:31 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 09:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 10:35 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:34 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 09:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 10:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 12:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	2BHappy	07/18/15 02:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 07:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/20/15 10:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 10:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 11:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 01:25 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 05:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 05:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 10:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 04:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 07:03 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 08:05 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 09:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 12:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 02:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 09:55 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 09:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 08:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 08:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/02/15 02:22 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	LouR	07/02/15 11:39 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 03:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 04:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/01/15 08:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	asitis	07/01/15 11:44 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 12:08 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/04/15 05:38 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	claire7	07/05/15 12:04 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 12:46 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/05/15 05:01 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/06/15 12:16 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 05:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/09/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 09:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/09/15 10:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 11:01 PM

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