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Re: Hello from south of la la land job #2588317 07/15/15 06:21 PM
Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 1,597 Likes: 2 H HaWho OP Member
OP HaWho Member H Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 1,597 Likes: 2	Thank you Job. I will hang back. I have LOTS of practice. I know they all go through it differently. He has been whistling and singing like his old self. Yesterday he texted me to tell me he was going to fix "x" in the house and he did it. Seemed to be an adult not a kid trying to please his mother. More like a true adult spouse. First time he has done a thing on the house in a year. Other weird thing is he slept with his door open last night. Has not done this since BD. Know I should not be watching-but I am through laced fingers. Can't help it when he lives with me. This all comes on the heels of me reaching a detachment plateau. Weekend of 4th I woke up and remembered last relationship I had before H. I felt like boyfriend was distancing and we were drifting. I broke it off with him and as I did, although it hurt, I remember feeling this cementing in me. It was this voice that said: "you can do this. You'll be better off w/o this sitch." And I was. Months later boyfriend tried to come back and I was done. Anyway, that same cementing feeling hit me with H on 4th. Let's see how long it lasts ... Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced

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Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/29/15 10:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/29/15 11:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Wonka	06/30/15 05:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 06:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/30/15 06:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 07:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 09:37 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 10:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Sotto	07/01/15 12:13 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/01/15 04:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Georgiabelle	07/01/15 07:06 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/01/15 08:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 02:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 07:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 12:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 01:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 03:51 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/10/15 04:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 05:19 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 05:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 05:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 06:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 06:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 10:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 11:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:24 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/11/15 07:51 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 09:36 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/11/15 12:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 11:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 06:53 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 07:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/13/15 08:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 09:16 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Rouky	07/14/15 06:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 04:45 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 05:52 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:38 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 07:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 07:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:17 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 08:31 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 09:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 10:35 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:34 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 09:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 10:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 12:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	2BHappy	07/18/15 02:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 07:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/20/15 10:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 10:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 11:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 01:25 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 05:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 05:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 10:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 04:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 07:03 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 08:05 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 09:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 12:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 02:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 09:55 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 09:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 08:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 08:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/02/15 02:22 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	LouR	07/02/15 11:39 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 03:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 04:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/01/15 08:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	asitis	07/01/15 11:44 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 12:08 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/04/15 05:38 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	claire7	07/05/15 12:04 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 12:46 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/05/15 05:01 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/06/15 12:16 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 05:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/09/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 09:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/09/15 10:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 11:01 PM

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