Your right with the ups and downs with the spouse. I am trying to stay in the middle and be level. It is hard though I had a very weird day and the W and were talking and relaxing, she asked about ML and I turned her down due to my stance. She then blew up saying that nothing is going on and she hates me etc. etc.
The next day she is asking what I want to do this weekend and our future plans with the house/vacation. Truly confusing and a hell of a ride.
What criteria have you set up as far as intimacy goes? Just curious as I have no idea what guidelines to set up other than him working on the marriage, wearing his ring, & having transparency w/ his devices.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
