It sounds as if you have a good plan. With my first ex-wife she would get the kids on Saturday night and return them Sunday after church. She would keep them at her Grandfather's house because she was living in her car. What got me in trouble was in letting her come to my house to hang out with the kids. A lot of bad habits developed from there. Once I put a firm boundary in place she became a raving lunatic but I helped me to get control of the situation. At that point she decided that she would make my marriage to my current STBXW a living hell and screwed with us at every opportunity.


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.