I don't want H to live in our house while actively with OW. He said he would go. I'm working on a legal separation document. He really wants a divorce but he won't say it out loud and so far hasn't filed. OW lives 1000 miles away but is from a town near us. Still has family there. H is isolating himself from friends and family and constantly texting/talking to OW.

What if he won't move?

Me:53
H: 48
Affair confirmed.: 6/25/14

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming