Can anyone answer this question:

Since Friday H has been "playing house." He has been around (no going out, has been saying where he is going/when he will be back, started texting about nonessential stuff and even engaged in joking banter via text). This is the longest duration thus far that he has joined the living

Is this because he has processed some stage/experience from childhood so he is coming up for air before he goes back in the tunnel to tackle something else? Just curious here.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced