I have found myself in the same situation as many

[ATPeace]

So my wife seems to be disconnecting herself from me at an alarming rate

For me this is all quite new she only dropped the bomb 3 and a bit weeks ago but for her she says that she has been feeling lonley for a number of years I guess she has been working to this point for quite some time which perhaps makes this easier for her right now ....I do not know if this is the cause or not she does seem to be coping with this much better than I am

It seems when I come into the house she makes an excus to either go out or find other things to do so she is not in my company

She is moving on very quickly and I need to GAL and try to disconnect from her but this is extremely hard I have been reading all the help given to me on my post for me I value our marriage and it just feels that she she's not really care any more about me., I am trying not to feel sorry for myself however I realise what I have lost and it breaks me to tears often

Thank you for your help

Gary